First of all, thanks to everyone who stopped by yesterday and read our very first blog post by the incredibly talented, Jade Twilight. We ended up with a really great discussion and the general consensus seems to be that trust is the important element in living out a fantasy.
Oh and Jill Noble from Noble Romance stopped by late last night-- http://www.nobleromance.com -- and shared a link with us in which the top ten sexual fantasies are listed. Here it is, very interesting stuff and number one is my fave! http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Sex/sexpsych/sexual_fantasies/top10_female_sexual_fantasies_3.htm
But we have lots more fantasies. Today we want to share a bit of exhibitionism -voyeurism. Now I have to admit, exhibitionism is number two on my personal list. The thought of everyone knowing I am having an orgasm makes me so hot I can’t stand it!
We all have that fear that we are up on a stage giving a speech and suddenly realize we are naked. Fear. Yeah, but fear can be very thrilling—it’s why we ride roller coasters and watch scary movies and when you combine it with sex it can be downright explosive! Personally I’ve always loved being the center of attention and maybe that’s why having sex in a public place turns me on so much. Have I ever acted out one of those fantasies? Yes, when I was in college I did have a bit of fun in a dressing room with everyone outside listening and knowing what was going on. But let’s face it, that’s the tame end of exhibitionism. And the tame end of voyeurism as well. No one actually saw a damn thing—just heard it. Although I must tell you it was an incredible thrill!
I do have this fantasy in which I am on a train or airplane and I see a stranger and our eyes lock. It’s at night, so the lights are very dim and we continue to stare. After a while I spread my legs—and of course I’m not wearing any panties. So he exposes himself as well and we watch each other masturbate while everyone is sitting all around us. I also have one in which I do the nasty in the back yard while I know the neighbor is watering his flowers next door and watching every move! {{NOTE:THIS BLOG WILL RUN LATE TODAY AS TESS JUST GOT WET}}
Ahem… I’m back. Needed to take care of something right quick…lol Anyway, Lusty Lady shared a fantasy made real with us that involves her husband and one of his fantasies that started when he was a teenager. Let’s listen in on what she had to say.
My husband told me about the fantasies he had about me when he was a teenager. They mainly revolved around being in the sleeper of a big truck, so when my father-in-law—who is a truck driver-- broke down in Texas, we borrowed a truck to go get him and I found the perfect opportunity to make some of hubby’s fantasies come true. After we picked up his dad and hooked up his truck, my husband and I got in the sleeper. I could tell by the look on hubby’s face he was hoping I wanted to fool around. Little did he know just how hot it would get in that sleeper.
I kneeled on the side of the bed and began to slowly strip, and then I began to strip him. When I got his jeans off, I proceeded to suck his cock. He was so excited it didn't take him long to cum. But the good thing is, he never went soft. I pushed him back and crawled up his body until I was sitting on his face (at this point in our marriage we had never talked dirty to each other, but this was in his fantasy). He started licking and fingering me. So I told him “lick my pussy and make me cum all over your face and finger”. I could tell this really made him hot because he was doing a great job. After I came, I slid down and rode his cock, until we both came again.
He said, “Get on your knees and suck my cock till you make it hard enough for me to fuck you again”. So that's just what I did. He kept saying things like, “ yea suck my cock” and “harder” and “deep throat me” -- stuff like that ( I didn't realize his dad could hear us until we got back home). He then put me on my knees on the bed and kept telling me how much he loved fucking my tight pussy and how he was going to pound me until we got home.
He damn near did too. We tried every position either of us had ever heard of. By the time we got home, I was so sore I could hardly walk. He came 5 times I kid you not. I think it was the idea as much as anything. But still today, anytime we talk about going anywhere in a big truck, he gets this shit eating grin on his face and says, “I’ve already had the trip of a life time.”
Whew!!! That little story got me all heated up. Think I need to go out in the highway and snag myself a whole convoy of trucks. For those of you who aren’t familiar with one of these big trucks, that sleeper Lusty Lady is talking about is a bed right behind the driver’s seat only separated by a curtain. There is no way Father-in-law didn’t hear of course. And when they got home he admitted he’d heard everything and had been quite turned on himself. And from what Lusty Lady says about dear old Father-in-law, I’m thrilled I didn’t meet him driving down the road! Sounded like an accident in the making to me! GO DAD!!!
Now I've never ridden in one of these big trucks, but of course I've seen them in movies and I do have another exhibitionist fantasy that does actually involve a big truck. I think a lot of people have had this one though, but it's still worth mentioning. I'm with my lover and we are driving down the interstate and a big truck is next to us. As the profile of the truck towers over our car he can see right inside. With my lover's permission of course, I give the truck driver a little sample of my wares by pressing my naked breasts to the window. The driver is very happy and encourages me by wiggling his tongue. Now my lover is all hot and bothered and my shorts and panties come off. So my lover is driving and has his fingers between my slit and he is rubbing and I'm twisted like a pretzel trying to give the truck driver as much of a view as possible. The driver is weaving, we're weaving. lol Oh yeah, that one always gets me off for sure. Great fantasy for masturbation. Try it!
So what does everyone think of Lusty Lady’s exhibitionist fantasy made real? Did it turn you on? Could you have been so wild knowing your Father-in-law was listening to everything? What is it about strutting our stuff for all to know that turns us on?
That’s it from me for today. I’m on my way out the door to get to the nearest interstate—plenty of big rigs there. lol Tomorrow Jade will be back to share another fantasy. And Thursday it’s my turn again and I’ll begin my sweet sweet Mark’s fantasy. It’s all about me. Yummy!
Blowing Kisses,
Tess
Very hot Tess. Been in a big rigg that would be interesting. Wonder if my aunt & uncle still have their cab... lol
Never been in a big rigg but damn that was HOT!!!
I am the passenger in a lot of road trips so I'm always daydreaming along the way. Sometimes I wonder what it would feel like to pull over and go at it right quick while the other cars are zooming by...the kids in the backseat are usually the rain on my parade. LOL
Actually Sapphire, I'm the same way daydreaming in the passenger seat. Last weekend my hubby and I went hiking we had like an hour dive to get to the trail, on the ride home I kept thinking. What would it be like to just pull over, on the back roads and go at it?
But like you the kid in the back rained on my parade. :( lol
Hot damn sex with no brakes...I love it!!! And highly recommend it~
However I must say I'm all for mild voy so long as you don't get busted by the cops, that kind of puts a damper on the heat...lol But rest assured, even when "Busted" I couldn't help but smile a wicked grin and no it hasn't stopped me. Also, please be careful while giving head in a moving vehicle...wink.
Yes sex in the great outdoors is a huge turn on~
Great blog Tess!
Annemarie you naughty girl. lol.
Yes sex in the great outdoors is exciting and lots of fun just watch out for splinters. lol Oh and bark is very rough, I know.
LMAO and You are calling me naughty????? HAHAHA
Sounds like equal pervyship to me....teehee
Ok equal prevship. LMAO!
uh oh...Jade is gonna steal Aunt and Uncle's big rig to do the nasty! Whoo hoooo...lol
Sapphire--the kids are definitely a problem, but leave them at home next time. lol
I bet hubby would get crazy with you!
AnneMarie--oh yes, blow jobs while driving can be tricky. But men love them for sure. Must be something about all that power under the hood and the power of all that suction too. lol...Sex with no brakes! Hmmm...wish you'd said that before I titled this blog..lol...
I think this is my new favorite blog. Honest and fun. :-)
I've had more sexual encounters in public than I like to admit. LOL. All with my significant other, of course...but let's see -- at a table in a Mexican restaurant, on the beach (twice), under someone's carport, under a tree in a parking lot, in a doorway downtown, and on the landing at the top of the stairs in a hotel (we didn't quite make it to the room - lol).
I think you're right, Tess...it's the fear and risk that heighten the senses. Of course, if you're not really good at letting go of your inhibitions, chances are you'll never relax enough to achieve any kind of release. But what the heck...gettin' there is half the fun! :-)
Jill-Glad you like the blog. Look who naughty now. Your right, the trill is half the fun, the other half is well you know. lol.
Wow...this was hot. I wish I had a truck now...*AJ runs down to the nearest car salesman*
Great stuff Tess and Jade!!
Thanks AJ. No worries a car works pretty well, too.
Can't say I ever had sex in a truck, but when I first got married my wife and I were in the back seat of her dad's old Jeep Wagoneer with him driving. My wife was on my lap and we got off after she got me all hot squirming around on my lap. Needless to say we were very quiet. There were a few times in the pines above his house above the river. As late as in our forties when I went to pay the water bill she would ride with me wearing just a fur coat with nothing underneath and give me blow jobs that sometimes almost caused and accident. Some of them even when we were on the freeway in broad daylight. I don't know if anyone in a truck ever saw us, but there were times I wondered.
Ray
Hi Jill,
I love your exhibitionist nature. I'm a bit that way myself. I just need the right partner--more trust.
Did it on a beach one night, but it was night and no one around, so that might not count.
Never in a restaurant although I sat at a table next to a couple who were playing with each other one night. And that made a lot of people uncomfortable and they complained and the manager made them leave.
But it turned me on. lol...and the man I was with just kept staring at me and I kept shaking my head saying No, wait till we get to the car! But the car was fun!
And yes, that fear sends every cell in your body into overload status...but at the same time you have to relax with it in order to get all you can out of the experience. Strange, but true.
You want to be excited by sex and feel everything but at the same time if you don't relax you kill the moment.
Thanks for stopping by, Jill.
A J~~truck, car salesman...ok, I get that. Run darlin' run! lol...thanks for stopping by. Come back tomorrow for more heat!
Whew! Ray! You bought your woman a fur coat! Screw the sex, I want the coat. lol...
Hey, I've had a fantasy about wearing nothing but a fur. Just walking in some place and dropping the damn thing to the floor and revealing allllllll my glory! That's just plain sexy!
And another story with Dad driving. I'm beginning to wonder how these Dad's are dealing with all this. I bet he knew what you were doing. When do two people in a back seat get quiet after all?
Hugs to you and thanks for stopping in and posting. Make sure you come back tomorrow to read more of Miss Jade's take on sexual fantasies!
Wow Ray! Very hot.
See I wouldn't want anyone watching me. I'm too self conscious. Of course I wouldn't mind watching. :)
Jambrea--well watching ties into all of this too. Remember, in Lusty Lady's fantasy dear Father-in-law was alllll ears! lol And you know I guess watching wouldn't be really any different than watching a porno movie. Unless of course the people you are watching are unaware they are being watched. Now that heats things up to a whole new level doesn't it?
I think I like the idea of possibly being discovered more so than I would like the actual discover. lol
Give me the element of danger, but not too much--I need my safety net!
oh wow hot stuff...ok i will never look at truckers the same way..lol
Savannah~~hey girlie...yep, those truckers can be downright sexy! And I swear, that sleeper cab is sounding better and better too. Wonder if it comes with silk sheets?
My mom had a truck driver phase. lol I don't even want to know what she did in the cab. :)
Jambrea- I agree I'm to self conscience for people to actual watch, but it makes a great fantasy.
Yes Savannah Truckers are hot, and usually lonely. (wink)
Maybe we should all take a page from Mom's book, Jambrea. After reading this fantasy, I'm like Savannah, I'll never look at another truck the same way!
Tess,
The big rigs come with more than silk sheets. I watched a program on History, Discovery or Learning Channel, forget which.
It was about trucks and truck stops. A rig will pull into the stop and a big connection that looks like an oversize drier hose is connected to the sleeper. It has electrical connections and piped in A/C. Cable TV, Phone and Internet.
One of the rigs had a multi head shower, kitchen with MW/convection oven, flush toilet and a Jacuzzi. A king size bed and big screen TV. Not your father's big rig.
Ray
Wow! I never saw that when I was on the road. But then the rig I was in was pretty old and it was several years ago. But man was it fun.
Any vibrators come swooping down from the ceiling? Or how about an automatic spanking machine. Nah!
I'm an au naturale kind of gal.
Sounds like an interesting program. Sort of reminds me of the RV's driving up and down the roads. I used to own one myself that I thought was pretty sweet, but I saw some that were out of this world too.
So just like erotic romance ain't your Mama's romance, today's rigs ain't your Daddy's.
Gotcha, Ray! Thanks for stopping by again.
Hugs and more hugs!
Wow Tess!!! You write a mean blog, and that fantasy was incredible, what a great father-in-law. I don't know about the big rig, but I've always wanted to have sex in the bed of a truck, preferrably while it is raining! :) I have a thing for the rain. As I said before, I think I have found a new favorite read!! Thanks!!
~Stephanie
Wow, that was...wow.
This is a subject near and dear to my heart. *grins* I've had many exhibitionist experiences with my honey.
Some were in front of other consenting adults with me stark naked and getting played with, and others were in parking lots and outdoorsy places where we were trying not to get caught. I'm rather fond of giving blowjobs and getting my treat, what can I say?
LOL, just as a note: I don't recommend very lush areas at night...there are bugs, and they bite.
Still, I love being the center of attention, if only because it makes me nervous(I'm rather shy by nature, believe it or not). Those butterflies are like nothing else, and being toyed with by my handsome man while they watch? It's beyond hot.
Whew. I think I need to take a break now. *grins*
Great post! This is my first time to this blog, and I know I'll be back!
Blessings,
Dena
Hello again, Stephanie.
I'm so glad you enjoyed. I'm with you about the rain. I love sex with a storm raging outside my window. It seems to up the sex a notch or two--know what I mean? lol Now I've never actually done it IN the rain, but that sounds like something I might like to try.
Now I don't recommend sex in the bed of a truck unless you bring padding. That thing is hard. I'm into comfort. That may very well be another reason we do it in bed--not just because of privacy. lol
I'm so glad we may become your fave. I hope everyone enjoys. We have plans for a couple of guest bloggers as well. And if any of our readers have suggestions for something they'd like to see on our blog--we'd like to hear about it.
Hugs....
Dena,
Thanks so much for stopping by. I'm so thrilled to hear that exhibitionism is your thing!
Thanks for the tip about bugs. My experience on the beach taught me a little about sand fleas. lol
In front of other consenting adults?...hmmmm...I'm wondering just how far that went. Just a little play time or full blown group sex? I think Jade is posting about group sex later on. Not really sure of her schedule.
I'd love to chat with someone who has experienced group sex. You and your partner obviously have an incredibly trusting relationship. Kudos to you.
Stop by again and give us your thoughts.
Hugs....
Tess,
Actually, BDSM is my thing, but it encompasses so much. There's a wonderful play space upstate from me and my Master, and we go there sometimes to scene. It doesn't go to full-out sex, but it's definitely a sensual atmosphere.
I've been with him since I was 18, and it's amazing how our relationship has journeyed through the highs and lows. I trust him more now than I ever thought I would when it started.
*ahem* Okay, enough gushing. Well, I haven't had group sex...but I have had a threesome. Which was incredibly intense. It wasn't with another guy though...it was with another woman. But for now, it's just me and the honey-man.
*smiles* Be well!
Blessings,
Dena
Dena~so glad you stopped back by and shared. BDSM. Well, Jade and I are planning a week of BDSM. She is in the planning stages right now, I'm in editing mode on a book. lol...so we haven't gotten too far with things yet.
So we'd love to have you show up when we do that. Your insight could be so invaluable. I've love to here more about your Honey Man too.
I've always thought my nature to be a bit submissive where men and an actual relationship are concerned, but have never experienced the type that you of course speak of. I find it fascinating. And I can't wait for BDSM week to learn more about it and all the subtleties.
So please make sure you keep dropping in and share more with us.
Hugs....
Tess,
Well, if you have any questions, i'm always very happy to help. Trust me, i'll be around over the next couple weeks (and beyond!) to check out this blog. It's sizzling!
*hugs* Be well!
Blessings,
Dena
Fantastic, Dena! Can you recommend any good sites on the internet for research into BDSM. The true BDSM. I'm told there is a major difference in what people are using for promotional purposes and that of the real BDSM community, so to speak. If you know of any, please email me at
teasyone@hotmail.com
Thanks so much!
I have an excellent how to book on BDSM called "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism". When I was moving some of my stuff to a new storage unit I found it. I just checked and it is still available from Barnes & Noble online and Amazon.com
It is a more or less safety manual for practitioners, especially newcomers.
I have a female friend who wants to be a male who has her own female submissive. She gave me the title and that of another book. Many BDSM clubs have what is called a MUNCH. That is a meeting open to interested newcomers. You can probably find a MUNCH near you if there are any clubs. I found two where I live now by going online. There was one in Florida that I discovered by asking a woman who worked in a sex shop that sold toys, books, DVDs and clothing for the lifestyle and also costumes for my stripper friends.
Dena probably knows about the MUNCH meetings and what you can learn.
That store is a whole blog by itself. So is my gender bender friend.
Ray
Hey Ray!
Yep, i've read Screw the Roses, and Jay Wiseman's SM101 (he was recently down in Lake Worth for a weekend seminar...it was really good!). There are also The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book.
Munches are lots of fun. *grins* Yeah, i know about them. Been to a few, on both of the FL coasts. The people are usually pretty awesome.
*smiles* Nice to meet a fellow kinkster.
Blessings,
Dena
Dena,
I would have to be careful with your name if I were to ever start writing directly to you. I have a daughter named Dena.
Are you familiar with "Fairvilla The Mega Store For Lovers"? I used to go to the one in Cocoa Beach at least once a week when I was aboard a ship at the Cape. I have also been at the one in the Orlando area. I understand there is also one in the Miami area.
What is nice about Fairvilla is that it is a high class store. If there is anything you want that they don't have they can order it.
One odd thing is that the Cocoa Beach store used to be a nightclub. The mezzanine is under a domed roof. The acoustics are such that if you speak above a whisper upstairs everyone on the ground floor can hear both sides of your conversation. The woman who worked the upstairs counter was the one I had to ask about where to find a club that would take in new people.
I noticed that at more than half of the customers were either couples or women.
When I left Florida I visited my favorite stripper at her home in Orlando. We visited a friend of hers who took us to the Orlando Fairvilla. I found out that the day I left was her birthday. Since we were in the store I bought her a vibrator for her birthday.
When she had her last kid she had to have her navel ring removed. She kept it in a urine sample bottle. It is now my earring.
Ray